Showing posts with label BFN. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BFN. Show all posts

November 19, 2009

How Do I Move Forward...?

Honestly... I don't know what to do with myself. I'm either in a fog or so angry I want to punch, kick, bite, anything to try to release some of this anger. I have had boughts of anger about POF, but nothing like this. I'm just a hot mess that this didn't work.  Every where I turn people are posting announcements.  4 announcements in the last week on stalk book.  On my support forum, 2 of the other ladies I was cycle buddies with both posted bfp's...  I'm happy for them I really am...but it feels like a dagger into my already shattered heart.

Fuck me I can barely make eye contact with my hubby right now.  I'm just so ashamed that my body is such a broken down piece of shit at 31!  I've told him to leave me.  I don't understand why he stays.  He's still pretty young, he can find someone new, someone better, someone who can give him what he wants.  A family.

Trust me I don't want to be reminded that I have 2 frosties.  We have 2...that's it...what are the chances that both will survive the thaw and attach.  Slim to shit...  I mean c'mon this is JD and I.  If we didn't have bad luck, we'd have no fucking luck!

I'm back at work today.  And it's AWESOME!  I hope you can hear my sarcasm!  I really want to do nothing.  I want to hide in my house, hug my doggies, and drink my coffee.  I know this feeling will fade.  I just wish there was some way to numb all this pain.  I just wish that the days didn't feel like years.